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5 Problems with Wedding DJs (And How to Avoid Them)
When you’re planning your wedding, finding the right DJ can make or break the vibe of your big day. After all, your DJ is the person responsible for setting the tone, ensuring the dance floor is packed, and creating unforgettable memories. But not all DJs are created equal, and unfortunately, some come with issues that can leave you with more regrets than memories.
To help you avoid DJ disasters, we’ve outlined the top 5 problems couples encounter with wedding DJs—and how you can steer clear of them!
THEY PLAY THE SAME 'WEDDING CLASSICS’ AT EVERY EVENT
If you’re about to get married it’s likely that you’re currently on the wedding circuit and hearing lots of the same music at each event, but this doesn’t need to be the experience at your wedding!
If this is a concern for you, be sure to bring this up when you speak with potential DJs. Describe the vibe you don’t want as much as the vibe you do want. A great wedding DJ should have an extensive music library and experience playing to diverse crowds, meaning they are competent in bringing a sense of individuality to your playlist and your event.
While there are always ‘tried and tested’ dancefloor fillers, a great DJ will have new remixes or mashups to keep people on their toes and to ensure the set feels fresh.
THEY’RE CRINGEY, CHEESY, AND OUT OF TOUCH WITH NEW MUSIC
No one wants a DJ who feels stuck in the past or has got complacent with their art.
When looking for your DJ, look for someone who still also plays at international venues, bars, and nightclubs, where they’re exposed to different genres and new music. A wedding DJ who is active in the broader music scene is far more likely to bring energy and creativity to your big day. They’ll mix in current hits and know what’s trending, all while keeping things timeless and appropriate for the occasion.
THE DJ DOESN’T LISTEN TO YOU
Your wedding is all about your vision, and your DJ should respect that. Unfortunately, some DJs come in with their own agenda, treating your wedding like just another gig rather than a personalized event. A good DJ won’t impose their own tastes—they’ll collaborate with you to create the perfect playlist that reflects your style and personality.
Make sure your DJ is someone who takes the time to understand your preferences—whether it’s your ‘Must-Play’ songs or the ones that make you cringe (and therefore, are on the ‘Do Not Play’ list). They should also be flexible, willing to take requests on the night if that’s what you want, or stick to the setlist if you prefer that there are no surprises. A successful DJ-client relationship is all about communication and collaboration.
THEY HAVE MASSIVE EGOS AND AN ATTITUDE TO MATCH
Let’s face it: no one likes a DJ with a massive ego, especially on your wedding day. A DJ with an oversized personality can easily take the spotlight away from the real stars—you and your partner. Instead of making the day about your love story, they may turn it into their personal performance, which is not what anyone wants.
While it’s important to hire a DJ who is confident and experienced, they should also be down-to-earth and approachable. Look for someone with a strong track record but also a humble attitude, so they can read the room, adjust their set, and keep the day about you, not them.
THEY THINK THEY'RE THE ‘HYPE PERSON’ (AND OVERDO IT ON THE MIC)
There’s nothing worse than a DJ who won’t stop talking on the mic, trying to hype up the crowd with cringe-worthy commentary. Great music will speak for itself, and guests don’t need to be told when it’s time to dance.
Make sure to ask your DJ how much they use the mic during their sets. If they’re enthusiastic about playing the role of the hype person, it might not align with your vision of the night. Opt for a DJ who knows when to let the music do the talking, keeping the vibe fun and authentic rather than forced.
HOW TO AVOID THESE PROBLEMS AND FIND THE PERFECT DJ
Choosing the right DJ for your wedding boils down to communication, research, and trust. When interviewing potential DJs, don’t be afraid to ask the tough questions:
- How do they customize their playlists for different weddings?
- Are they comfortable playing a wide range of genres and catering to diverse crowds?
- Will they take requests and listen to your preferences?
- How much do they use the mic?
- Can they share reviews or references from past clients?
By being upfront about your expectations and making sure the DJ is willing to work collaboratively, you can avoid the common pitfalls many couples face. The result? A killer soundtrack for your big day, a packed dance floor, and memories that will last a lifetime.
So, don’t settle for a wedding DJ who’s stuck in the past, cringeworthy, or more interested in showing off than celebrating your love. Find a DJ who will listen, understand your vision, and create a musical experience that’s as unique as your wedding day!
